Friday, September 17, 2010
Dear Future Husband!
Dear Future Husband,
As you can tell I've been thinking about you alot, and making lists. This one is from a few weeks ago in Relief Society. I found one from about 10 years ago when I was a cute little MiaMaid. I don't have the paper for a picture comparrison, however I remember what was on the list. It was short.
Wow, I was deep. I'm sure you probably would have liked the younger version of me. I was alot less pickier than I am now, and easily impressed. Go figure. I'm sorry I guess girls are like fine wines, they get better with age ;) Lucky you!
I'm not sure if you can read this list(sorry my writing is pretty messy.)Let me recap it for you. It's very important, so please pay attention. Some of these may be negotiable-Actually probably only the Bonus is. I don't like to think of it as being picky, more so this is a list of things that I deserve. :)
-Worthy Priesthood Holder..There's nothing more attractive than a worthy priesthood holder. Please be good.
-Honest... One of the things I love about my Dad, is that he is one of the most honest men that I know.
-Balances me out.. This one can go either way. I sure hope you're patience because I'm not. I'm slightly emotional every now and again, so if you could please be a softie when I need it, and stern when I'm being a brat(which doesn't happen as often anymore) that would be much appreciated.
-Active(Physically and Spiritually)... I am active. I love playing sports. So please can this be something that we share. Also, I would like you to be Spiritually Active. Is this too much to ask? All I want is for you to lead Family Scripture study, Prayer and FHE without me having to ask you to do so.
-This one is almost just as important as being a worthy Priesthood holder. YOU MUST MUST MUST think I am funny.
-You have to love Children because I want atleast 4.
-Treating your mom and sisters with respect. I sure hope you're nice to girls, I would like an awesome example for our sons! Thank you!
-Wants a Temple Marriage. If you don't, well then I guess you don't want to be with me forever, so you don't deserve me. I'll find someone else :)
-Makes me want to be a better person.
-Obedient Missionary(If you went.) My Bishop always told that there is alot to be said about how a guy acted on his mission, and that if he wasn't obedient on his mission, chances are he's more likely to slip up(now I'm not too sure how much of that I believe EXACTLY, but it's a good principle.) As for a mission period. I don't think that it's a requirement that you even went on a mission. Some of the most amazing guys I've ever met haven't gone on missions, and subsequentally some of the biggest douche bags in my life right now are Returned Missionaries. So I will have to get back to you on that one.
BONUS- If you're tall and Cute I won't mind one bit ;)
That's a pretty big list of things to live up to. Who am I to even think that there is a guy out there with all of those qualities that would even want to marry me? Well... I don't know. But, I know that most of these are non negotiable.
Love you Long time!!
Haha, I just thought that this was pretty funny when I found it in the back of my day timer, and thought it was even funnier when I was going thru my Young Womans time capsule and found the one I wrote when I was 14. Oh how things have changed. Thank goodness. I've never been one to worry about getting married, I know it will happen, I'm young. This is in no way, shape or form is a declaration that I am looking to get married, and that that's the only thing on my mind. Because, well it's not. I just thought this was funny.