Wednesday, January 6, 2010

I'm the one they LOVE to HATE.

So, as I've been reading the comments I leave on other peoples blogs who talk about everyday 'Mormon Culture' I realize that I'm the girl that most people love to hate. I am the one who does the 'typical' Wow, I just realized this.

Example:
-1- Gus, he talks alot about random things(but in a good way Gus) I don't always agree with what he says but whatever thats how I am. I am an opposer. I like a good debate. So he just recently posted about how he hung out with a girl, and then called her a few days later to see if she'd want to hang out, and then the person who answered said it was the wrong number.... turns out it wasn't(he'd done some investigating) and it was her's she was just being a dumb girl. I agree. That was dumb. But as I posted a comment on it with what I'd do in that situation(and what I have done, and continue doing) I thought I'd get flack. So I'm going to post what I said on my blog and let anyone rip into me, telling me to just 'woMAN-up'.

So here's what I said(not verbatum) but I said usually I don't like confrontation and when a guy asks for my number I have a hard/awkward time saying no. So I just give it to them and then give them a title in my phone lie "lachele-do NOT answer" and then let it go straight to voicemails. I rarely check my voicemails and so I don't feel bad for not returning calls(sorry) ha! Then if they say they've called me I'll either say 'yah, sorry I got distracted' or 'I listened to it but then got busy and forgot to call you back' or the best 'my phone is so random, sometimes it doesn't ring, goes straight to vm and then I don't know I have a vm for a few days' HA! -- Now that I just gave out my secrets all guys that read my blog from Calgs' will now know when I say that to them and feel bad, for that I am truly sorry, You just haven't got the hint any other way.

That's just one of the "things" that I do like an inmature little mormon girl. So as you've read thru my posts or my comments on other peoples blogs, do you find that there's anything else that I do that is inmature. I'd like to know. I can't promise I'll change them--cause who'd change something that works? but I'd like feedback :)

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3 comments:

Declarations of a Drama Diva said...

Ignoring is better than pretend your phone doesn't exist... and that it isn't your number. :P

Lachele said...

yah, ummm I don't feel bad in the slightest.. I can't stand it when it happens to me. But I have no problem doing it to other people. Karma is going to bite me soon!

{Sarah} said...

Oh the things you don't even think about when you are married... going back a few years though... ya I totally ignored my phone too :D